YOU’RE ALLOWED
TO WANT MORE FROM INTIMACY
Helping men stop overthinking in intimacy and build the sex and relationship lives they truly desire.
Do You wonder, “Is this All?”
Although everything looks fine, something feels like it’s missing.
I help men…
create deeply satisfying intimate lives,
feel sexually confident and overcome challenges like unreliable erections,
and navigate low desire - whether it’s their own or their partner’s.
Hi, I’m Anya!
I am a fun-loving, quirky woman who grew up between Sweden and California. Over the course of five years, I’ve supported hundreds of people in creating deeply fulfilling sex and relationship lives.
My passion for this work is personal. Growing up, I learned to believe my needs and desires were “too much,” and that I had to settle for less than I truly wanted to be loved. That belief left me feeling broken and unsatisfied in every relationship. This sent me on a continuous search for answers.
Since then, I’ve studied sexuality and relationships extensively, training as a sex and relationship coach through the Somatica® Institute, studying sexology at the university level, and contributing to sexuality research. I’ve also immersed myself in embodied intimacy practices through workshops and retreats and become a certified yoga and breathwork teacher.
In my work, I combine lived experience, scientific grounding, and body-based tools to support you in creating a deeply satisfying, connected intimate life.
In our work together, we start by clarifying your goals and what you want to focus on, and each session is tailored around what feels most relevant to you. Sessions are experiential and embodied, meaning we don’t just talk about challenges, we actively practice tools that help you navigate them in real life. This may include exploring breath, arousal, attraction, fantasies, and patterns in a way that feels safe and supported. Over time, you build a practical toolkit for intimacy and relationships that you can carry with you beyond our sessions.
In my coaching practice,
I integrate psychological science with body-based practices to create lasting change rather than purely intellectual insight.
At its core, this work focuses on helping people develop the tools and insights needed to foster the sex and relationship lives they most desire.
Curious if this work actually helps?
Read Some client Stories
“The few sessions I have had with Anya have been more helpful than years of therapy.”
— Sarah
“After the hardest breakup of my life, I felt shut down from dating and unsure if I was ready for partnership again, but working with Anya helped me move through the grief and find clarity on my boundaries, wants, and needs. Finally, I reached a turning point where I realized I could hold grief and still feel excited and ready to date again.”
— Sam
“Before working with Anya, I had erection problems to the point where I couldn’t have sex. Through coaching, I found sexual confidence and an understanding of my needs, allowing me to bring this energy into the bedroom. Now I no longer worry about performing. Instead, I can have fun and satisfy my partner through listening to her body and needs.”
— Charles
