YOUR DESIRES AREN’T TOO MUCH
Somatic sex and relationship coaching for people who long for more.
Maybe your relationship is “okay,” but something feels missing.
On the surface, everything seems to work, but deep down, you don’t feel truly fulfilled.
You sometimes find yourself daydreaming about better intimacy and starting to wonder, is this all there is?
Listening to your Wants isn’t selfish; it’s essential.
When desires are ignored, it often leads to emotional distance, resentment, a loss of intimacy, and chronic frustration.
Over time, this can lead to recurring conflict, affairs, or separation.
Start listening to yourself to create a pathway toward deeper connection and satisfying intimacy.
I work with People who long to…
experience mind-blowing intimacy,
overcome sexual challenges like unreliable erections,
and navigate low desire - whether it’s their own or their partner’s.
Hi, I’m Anya!
I am a fun-loving, quirky woman who grew up between Sweden and California. Over the course of five years, I’ve supported hundreds of people in creating deeply fulfilling sex and relationship lives.
My passion for this work is personal. Growing up, I learned to believe my needs and desires were “too much,” and that I had to settle for less than I truly wanted in order to be loved. That belief left me feeling broken and unsatisfied in every relationship. This sent me on a continuous search for answers.
Since then, I’ve studied sexuality and relationships extensively, training as a sex and relationship coach through the Somatica® Institute, studying sexology at the university level, and contributing to sexuality research. I’ve also immersed myself in embodied intmacy practices through workshops and retreats and become a certified yoga and breathwork teacher.
In my work, I combine lived experience, scientific grounding, and body-based tools to support you in creating a deeply satisfying, connected intimate life.
I combine psychological science with body-based practices to address intimacy and relational patterns in ways that foster real, lasting change rather than purely intellectual insight.
In our work together, we start by clarifying your goals and what you want to focus on, and each session is tailored around what feels most relevant to you. Sessions are experiential and embodied, meaning we don’t just talk about challenges, we actively practice tools that help you navigate them in real life. This may include exploring breath, arousal, attraction, fantasies, and patterns in a way that feels safe and supported. Over time, you build a practical toolkit for intimacy and relationships that you can carry with you beyond our sessions.
In my coaching practice,
I integrate a science-based Conceptual Framework with embodied practices to support lasting change.
At its core, this work focuses on helping people develop the tools and insights needed to foster the sex and relationship lives they most desire.
Curious if this work actually helps?
Read Some client Stories
“The few sessions I have had with Anya have been more helpful than years of therapy.”
— Sarah
“After the hardest breakup of my life, I felt shut down from dating and unsure if I was ready for partnership again, but working with Anya helped me move through the grief and find clarity on my boundaries, wants, and needs. Finally, I reached a turning point where I realized I could hold grief and still feel excited and ready to date again.”
— Sam
“Before working with Anya, I had erection problems to the point where I couldn’t have sex. Through coaching, I found sexual confidence and an understanding of my needs, allowing me to bring this energy into the bedroom. Now I no longer worry about performing. Instead, I can have fun and satisfy my partner through listening to her body and needs.”
— Charles
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